ذكورة Leftist thinker& women’s representative Prof. Mariam AlSayegh: The whips of illusion & the fires of masculinity separate us from God

I was wondering... - This was in the past -
When the chants were rising and the voices were coming out of
the throats to denounce the male society!!! ...
Whose laws we live by!!!
I was wondering and wondering: Am I not from this society they are talking about,
so why don't I feel what they feel???
And I wish I hadn't wondered, the result would have been better for sure!!!
With time I discovered that I was in the bliss of ivory towers...
Haha, not to this extent - -
Believe me, what became clear to me after my humble experiences
and the experiences of many friends around me...
In their relationships with the controlling male dictator!!!
- This expression is beautiful, I liked it hahaha -
That I lived in the bliss of a family that enjoys complete equality and love...
And a small community surrounding me that, in my opinion,
is based on a lot of justice, everyone is clear...
Whoever cannot continue on the path declares honestly that
I will not complete this life with all this coldness!!!
So there were no betrayals or quarrels,
But what distinguished my small community was understanding and love...
- If only the community had remained rosy in my innocent mind -!!!
But woe to me when I rose above my ignorance and opened my ears to the wide world,
I heard phrases in new communities...
 
Repeated... - If you heard them in your ear, you would definitely not like them -
*That this kind of questioning only brings violence...!!!
*Run away from women, they will run after you...!!!
*And that women do not love anything other than violence and abandonment???
I heard these phrases repeated on the tongues of women and even girls,
And of course on the tongues of men!!!
I was very surprised, but the surprise disappeared when
I delved into all the stories that were happening around me...
I found that the beginnings were very similar, but the endings were different, of course
The beginning of any violence is lack of containment, lack of love, and self-contempt
Whoever thinks of treating a person with violence has tasted violence and oppression, which gave birth to...
Hatred of himself and every person???
Although I had a theory in mind one day...
Whoever has tasted oppression longs for moments of true love and searches for safety!!!
But unfortunately, in the experiences I lived
and was one of the witnesses...
I found that there are those who practice relationships dominated by pain where they control their loved ones to be the stronger party equipped to control, doubt, question, punish and escape...
They only long to make others taste torment...!!!
Although their tears and hearts scream for help!!!
But their circumstances oppress them!!! ...
And the conflict within them interacts between love, betrayal,
circumstances, oppression, cruelty, revenge and fear of losing those they love when they discover their true nature!!!
This conflict generates behaviors and attitudes that differ from one person to another...
And from here the endings differ...!!!
And during all these relationships,
painful psychological responses occur whose harm continues
until the person finds love and tenderness.
It is unfortunate that the harm is great and the lines here are few
and cannot bear all the sighs!!!
So I want to talk about a very bad effect on human relationships...
And it is self-flagellation!!!
How harsh is this feeling, but like everything in life it has two sides...
The first side is the person who always complains and throws his frustration, sadness
and all his negative feelings on the other party he loves, so he responds to the blame of the first party...
With constant self-flagellation and a feeling of greatness, strength and forgiveness from this beloved who bears all these mistakes...
So the fear of losing him controls him, so he insists on begging, clinging, seeking refuge and seeking help from his tormentor!!!
Oh my God... What torment and humiliation is this???
And self-flagellation... In simple words far from all philosophies and definitions...
A type of psychological barrier that prevents a person from enjoying God's various talents, which is
A type of dissatisfaction with oneself, distorting the image of the person in his eyes,
and the lack of inner peace in the person...
And the absence of a goal in a person's life, which makes him an easy prey
to self-flagellation,
So it develops from a form of depression to reach in the later stages
To despair and self-destruction!!!
This is accompanied by preoccupation with oneself
and excessive attachment to the greatest tormentor
Who bears all the betrayals from the other party...!!!
That's why people think that a cat only loves those who strangle it
Strangle it means kill it and hurt it!!!
That's why I found the idea of ​​the cartoon Tom and Jerry and the ideas of love and revenge movies... to express the psychological complex of life with the executioner,
which is the phenomenon of enemies???
Do you like your relationship with your loved one to be the relationship of enemies who love enemies? I don't like this!!!
And certainly there are others who don't like this,
so think with me about the reason for all this hostility!!!
In fact, at one point I thought a lot...!!!
Why does cruelty and violence prevail in the society of lovers???...
So I found a group of many unorganized ideas jumping in my mind...
But I will only talk about some of them now... including...
When we don't love God, we don't love ourselves in the right way, nor do we accept ourselves, nor do we seek to acknowledge our mistakes, but rather we run away from them, so we don't love those we claim to love!!!
And when I don't love God, I don't know God's purpose in my life,
so I can't succeed in my work, which makes me fail in my relationships with people!!!
And when I don't love God, I can't understand myself, so I can't understand people, so I can't communicate with them!!!
When I do not love God, I do not know Him, I do not know myself,
I do not understand the skills of human knowledge, so I do not succeed in my life, nor do I have the ability to learn and understand life changes...
And the difference in people's reactions...
I cannot understand the reason for the difference, so I do not try to understand the reasons for events, so I do not succeed in my relationships!!!
Failure... Failure... Failure!!!
Of course I will find someone who complains, you changed the subject
and it all remained about God!!!
In fact, the source of all failure, fraud, corruption
and sin... is... distance from God...
Ah... Oh my God, how long will this failure last!!!
But every failure has an end... Love brings about reconciliation with the self,
prevents failure and casts the fear of failure in relationships outside...
and faith conquers it...
But what is certain is that placing a person's life in
the hands of God is the beginning of the path to success.
 
When we believe that our lives belong to God, sadness disappears,
and God's joy will enlighten the heart.
And God's help will help our weakness, and we will know very well that
God is present and with us at all times.
Which will make us love and care for ourselves,
so we love and care for those around us and give us the push to seek refuge in God...
So we strive to change and fix what has been corrupted
and work hard to develop our skills and learn new skills that prevent us from failure,
emptiness and self-loathing.
God is able to fill our hearts...
So we taste the sweetness of companionship
with God and live successfully without fear or deception.
Be well and in love.
 
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